event.param.ud.private_data_len =
                                IB_CM_SIDR_REQ_PRIVATE_DATA_SIZE - offset;
        } else {
-               ib_send_cm_mra(cm_id, CMA_CM_MRA_SETTING, NULL, 0);
                conn_id = cma_new_conn_id(&listen_id->id, ib_event);
                cma_set_req_event_data(&event, &ib_event->param.req_rcvd,
                                       ib_event->private_data, offset);
 
        ret = conn_id->id.event_handler(&conn_id->id, &event);
        if (!ret) {
+               /*
+                * Acquire mutex to prevent user executing rdma_destroy_id()
+                * while we're accessing the cm_id.
+                */
+               mutex_lock(&lock);
+               if (cma_comp(conn_id, CMA_CONNECT) &&
+                   !cma_is_ud_ps(conn_id->id.ps))
+                       ib_send_cm_mra(cm_id, CMA_CM_MRA_SETTING, NULL, 0);
+               mutex_unlock(&lock);
                cma_enable_remove(conn_id);
                goto out;
        }